Unravel the intricacies of decision-making with the four cardinal rules. These principles, steeped in cognitive science and practical wisdom, will guide you through the labyrinth of choices, helping you make informed decisions that align with your goals and values.
What is decision-making?
We make decisions every day
- These decisions range from the small and seemingly insignificant – what should I have for breakfast? – to potentially life-changing – should I stay and work on my relationship or should we break up?
- Following these four rules will set you up to win by discovering the clarity, purpose, and decisiveness you need to make your next important decision.
Let go of fear
Don’t let fear ruin your life
- Take a chance on yourself
- Have a consistent process for how to make a decision
- Having a go-to process will give you some of the certainty you need to take action in the midst of the doubt
Recognize Your Values
Decision-making is value clarification
- If you’re clear on your priorities, it will be that much easier for you to design the best outcome for your life
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Write it down
All important or difficult decisions must be made on paper
- By writing things down, you’ll have a physical list that helps you see the obstacle or opportunity clearly in front of you
- Pay attention to your own language as you write out the decision – words you choose will reveal your disposition on the matter
- If you are using positive language to describe the decision, chances are you are potentially excited about it
- Conversely, negative language is a good indication of fear
- Recognize the emotion behind the language
Get clear about your feelings
When it comes to making a big decision, be clear about what you really want and why you want it
- The more clearly you can define your own reasoning, the more likely you are to feel satisfied with the decision you make
- Don’t forget the reasons behind your decision
