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What is decision-making?Our day-to-day
What is decision-making?
Our day-to-day decisions range from the small and seemingly insignificant – what should I have for breakfast? – to potentially life-changing – should I stay and work on my relationship, or should we break up?
If we decide to follow a specific path to better our decision-making, we can overcome obstacles more quickly and achieve our end goal faster. Here are four rules that are set to rev up your decision-making game.
RULE 2: Get clear
RULE 2: Get clear about your feelings
It is important to be transparent with yourself regarding the meaning behind any decision. Be clear about your outcome and purpose and be able to visualize it as if it has already transpired.
The more clearly you can define your reasoning, the more likely you are to feel satisfied that you have made the right decision – regardless of the outcome.
RULE 3: Let go
RULE 3: Let go of fear
A key thing to note when handling a life-changing decision is that we’re fearful that things won’t work out. Fear can be an excuse to stay in a situation that isn’t working for you anymore as it keeps you in a pattern of inaction.
One of the ways to do this is to have a consistent process for making a decision. You have to take a chance on yourself.
Having a go-to process will give you some of the certainty you need to take action in the midst of the doubt that almost always accompanies large decisions. This process will help you focus on how to make a big decision.
RULE 1: Write it
RULE 1: Write it down
All important or difficult decisions must be made on paper. Pay attention to your language as you write out the decision. The words you choose will reveal your disposition on the matter. If you are using positive language to describe the decision, chances are you are potentially excited about it. Conversely, if you are using negative language, it’s a good indication of fear.
RULE 4: Recognize your
RULE 4: Recognize your values
You may not get all of the things you’re working toward, but chances are you’ll be better off than you are now. If you’re clear on your priorities, it will be that much easier for you to design the best outcome for your life.
If that is the
If that is the case, you can use fear before it uses you. Ask yourself if the decision is “a must” for you to reach another goal.
By acknowledging the emotion, you can take some of the power out of that emotional response and uncover how to make an important decision calmly by acknowledging the emotion.
